At one point of everyone's life, one is forced to take stock of how much one have done the far one has come; achievements, failures, broken relationships, pissed off people, developed hero worship, distanced friends among many others. Sad to say, not many are proud of the changes that have arisen. Some feel short changed, others ecstatic while others are indifferent having lost all hope. Where once they saw endless opportunities, they are now faced with the bleakness of life and walk head down.
The greatest gift one can give to oneself is self-criticism. to lay all ones fears out, dissect them, accept all weaknesses no matter how ugly they may seem and endeavor always to make progress. Some may not be comfortable with this approach and prefer to leave matters to the powers that be. However, true self examination is what would help one know whether they are on the right track or whether deviations have occurred.
Only when one gets the courage to admit their failures, acknowledge their weaknesses and celebrate their successes, do they really learn to truly appreciate their lives. Remember, one should always strive for peace of mind and oneness in body, spirit and soul. Some wise words keep on ringing in my head, "I don't want to be anything other than what I've been trying to be lately, all I have to do is think of me and have peace of mind."
Let us all strive for peace!
